Tantra massage is a massage technique that is often performed by couples in the privacy of their own homes.  Tantric massage is often talked about and explored in secrecy due to its intimate nature.  However, the true purpose of this massage’s technique to achieve a state of extreme relaxation and heightened sensual awareness.  Often, due to the techniques employed in tantric massage, it ends in orgasm.  By performing this technique, couples can help each other to achieve this state of relaxation while deepening and strengthening their relationship at the same time.

Beginning

In order to achieve the greatest results, it is recommended that couples should prepare a comfortable space for the massage, including pillows or towels to place under the head and pelvis of the person receiving the massage.  In addition, it is recommended that couples warm the massage oils and adjust the room temperature so that it is slightly warmer than usual.  To begin the massage, the person receiving the massage and the person giving the massage will remove all clothing.  Once the person receiving the massage is comfortable lying on the floor, he/she will be instructed to begin taking deep breaths.  In order to achieve a maximum state of relaxation, the person receiving the massage should try to focus on achieving a state of deep breathing with the breath filling the abdomen before gently exhaling.

Eye contact

Throughout the massage, the person giving the massage should make eye contact with the person receiving the massage. This increases the connection between the two and allows the person giving the massage to read the facial expressions of the person receiving the massage in order to know if the pressure and technique are appropriate.

What to expect

The person giving the massage will give a full body massage, starting with the back and extremities before advancing to personal areas such as the chest and genitals.  It is important to utilize a firm pressure, while being cautious in more sensitive areas not to apply too much pressure.  In addition, the massage should utilize long, slow strokes.  When massaging a females’ vaginal area, a firm pinching along the outer and then inner lips can often result in extreme relaxation and heightened sensation.  While massaging a male’s genital area, it is important to include a massage of the pelvic area just above the penis as well as the perineum area between the testicles and anus.  If the person receiving the massage appears close to orgasm at any time, it is important to back off of the technique you are using, remind the person to focus on deep breathing, and give the person a moment to regain his/her focus.  By the completion of the massage, the person receiving the massage has often come close to climax multiple times.  He/she can choose whether or not to complete the orgasm at the conclusion.  Regardless of that decision, it is important to allow the person who received the massage to relax and reflect for a while following the massage.